We're often told that men are visual creatures...that they'll sleep with more or less anyone and, if they stray, that it's 'our fault' for not putting out.

But what to do when your Signficant Other has no sexual interest in you at all?
Granted, if it's a mutual decision, then that's fine - but what if it's not? How the hell are you supposed to cope with that? And worse, what to do when he's more focused on fulfilling his sexual needs elsewhere - to the absolute exclusion of yours?

So; this is my story. I'm a thirtysomething woman (desperately) in need of a good seeing to....

I'm drawing comfort from my favourite Blondie Song 'Atomic' -
"Make me tonight...make it right....make it magnificant ..tonight - ATOMIC!"